Finding Family in Support

When Marites Darmawan first began looking for disability support, she wanted something more than just assistance with her daily needs. She wanted people who understood her, cared for her, and treated her like family.

“I was looking for people who can help me with my personal care and daily needs,” Marites shares.

Her journey with Holistic Support Services began after someone recommended the team while she was at St. Joseph Rehabilitation Hospital. From the very first day, she knew she was in good hands.

Signing up with Holistic Support Services was simple, but the impact it has had on her life has been anything but ordinary. From cooking meals and helping with exercise, to joining her for walks and shopping trips, Marites says the support workers have become an important part of her daily routine. “They are very helpful,” she smiles.

What stands out most for Marites is the way she feels within the community. “I’m part of their big family. They treat me as a mother.” For her, the connection goes beyond care—it’s about belonging.

Some of her fondest memories come from the community activities organised by Holistic Support Services. She recalls attending Christmas and mid-year participant parties, enjoying the fun activities, question-and-answer games, and of course, the food. These events, she says, are full of laughter and joy.

Community participation is also a big part of her everyday life. “We just make sure that once a week we go to the shop and that’s part of community participation,” she explains. Shopping trips to different DFOs are not only practical but also fun. One memory that stands out is an adventure with her support worker Queenie, when they got lost on the way to St. Mary to visit a Filipino shop. “We follow only the map, but she’s a very good driver,” Marites laughs. “I thought that’s the road we’re supposed to go, but it’s not. That’s why we got lost.” Despite the mix-up, she looks back on it with pride and joy—proof that sometimes the best memories come from the unexpected moments.

When asked if she would recommend Holistic Support Services, her answer comes easily: “Yes, I recommend some of my friends as well.”

For Marites, Holistic Support Services has provided more than just support—it has given her comfort, community, and a sense of family.